RE: Flirt Forgone

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I think I am getting the gist of your rant (haha.. see a joke! lol) Anyhow, I get what your saying and think that this is really well done. After reading it I see how this really is quite multidimensional and can be applied to various scenarios. I meet new and interesting people all of the time, but I as well come from an old school approach to this idea of how things (relationship building) work today. A few conversations and I have a pretty good gut feeling of what someone is about. Virtual dialog throws a wrench in my ability to read people. BUT! Give it enough time and their truth always comes to the light of day.

I never liked the ide of hiding behind a screen or false personality. I live my life, as well as my online life, as clear as possible. This way I don't have to remember what lie I told and to whom I told it. Too much worry and work in that kind of living. I hate sitting alone at the bar.. Real life isn't all that bad. When we all get into real life conversation, about real life Sh*t.. Then you have my attention. Then I am tuned in and ready for this new budding friendship! I definitely look for that on Hive.

Sorry if I missed the point :-/



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Virtual dialog throws a wrench in my ability to read people. BUT! Give it enough time and their truth always comes to the light of day

This is exactly the case. On Hive for example, the people who are not "themselves" slipup eventually. But on the internet in general, people don't need to be as consistent, so can jump from one topic to another without worrying about the conflict,, since people won't know them.

I live my life, as well as my online life, as clear as possible.

I value this. There is a difference between creating a persona for entertainment (nonameslefttouse or meesterboom) and lying about who you are and what you can do.

You are on point :)

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