All Put Together, All Things Are Beautiful

There is always a way things have been planned to be, and if there is any misplacement of any kind, there will always be a problem along the way. Talking of how my life would have turned out if I didn't go to the university I went to is what I may not be able to say accurately because every blessing I enjoy today, down to my marriage, is directly linked to my one step to that university.

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Casting my mind back to the year 2010, when I was applying for my university studies through JAMB, my brother, who was already serving in that same location, told me to apply for the university in that state because it is easy to gain admission there. On getting there what I saw was different because I couldn't gain admission that same year. Here comes the difference. My decision not to return home is the reason why I am where I am today. Applying to study in the same school that didn't offer me admission was one of the best things that happened to me because through it the bleeding I enjoyed today came to be.

The way my life would've been is what I may not really say, but I will say that I would have still been fine by the grace of God, but there would have been a change in the person I finally got married to. I met my husband in the same state I schooled in, and it has been such a blessing to me.Personally, I believe the way things played out for me is just according to the way God patterned it for me. Everyone I met was in one way or anotherinstrumental to my growth process. One terrible thing that happened to me way back then was when someone who I gave accommodation to ganged up against me.

Then it was as if the whole world was against me, but one thing that was a strong lesson for me is that I seriously learned patience and even forgiveness. My school was a good distance from my people and home. I also learned that it is so important to be myself not only when there is someone who I know there.Another lesson I want to share with you is that the world is too small, and what goes around certainly will come around. The world has been a small place, requiring I treat everyone with respect and honor. Well, I don't know if it will be in the same spot or in a higher place, but all I can say is that by the grace of God I will still be in motion.

Getting to someone from a different location or tribe than I am is what I am too sure of because I have already made up my mind not to marry within my tribe, but the direction was not too certain for me.In all it is a note of Thanksgiving because all things work together for good according to the Holy Bible, and I know that even this or that will bring good pleasure to God. Thank you so much for reading.