Masculine incompetence
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Woke up this morning thinking about how it must feel knowing as a guy, you aren't sexually satisfying your lady. In my opinion, there are 4 ways this could happen.
One, very early ejaculation. So, basically, you're in for 2 to 5 minutes and you're done. Bruh! That right there is a premature evacuation.
Funny, I have a friend who says he's okay with 5 to 7 minutes, says he doesn't have that kinda time anymore 🤣.
Two, now, this is my personal worst! It fucks with both parties moods and self-esteems. You want to guess? Yup! You guessed right! Or not? 🤷🏾♂️
Erectile dysfunction. So imagine a really hot girl, naked, walking towards you, and nope, no action. The penis just stays down like e no concern am.
As bad as the guy feels, and he's gonna feel bad because he's feeling incomplete, incapable, and probably like a waste of a man, believe me when I say the girl also feels terrible.
Now, girls, very delicate creatures, feel they are responsible for whatever the reason. They think they don't look good enough, the ones confident in their looks think they did something wrong.
This just spoils the entire atmosphere. Such vibe killer. Them fit even fight because of this thing sef or even breakup.
Three! "Size doesn't matter". This debate as been on-going for decades and will continue to do so. I'm not here to end it, I'm here to say one thing...
Size does matter... if it's the case of a condition termed micropenis. It's a real thing. And I tell you, it's a devastating thing.
Guys with this condition suffer from the worst types of insecurity and lowest of self-esteem. They suffer from depression and are exposed to unsafe health practices all in the quest to enlarge their penises.
Then someone says "what's the big deal in sex?" My dear, those are the people with no problems, when one as a miceopenis, or erectile dysfunction, or a girl with dyspareunia, that's painful sexual intercorse, then they'd appreciate what they have.
Four! My personal favorite! Bruh! You're just bad at it! Read a book! Ask your girl what she likes! Get better bro! 🤣
Ofcouse, the point of talking about a problem is to talk about the solution, except when the discussion is about Nigeria. 🤦🏾
Let's start with premature ejaculation. A number of factors have been said to cause it, such as sexual abuse, early sexual experience, insecurity, depression and interestingly, worry about ejaculating early.
So when you think about this problem, it happens! I'm currently thinking of the problem of having to handle $100million. Nope, still broke. Apparently only happens with this problem. 🤧
Well, having sex with someone you've been crushing on should do this too, I mean, from all the excitement.
So what to do? Let's start with the non-pharmaceutical. Behavior therapy. It's simple, options include masturbation, an hour or two before sex, this should help delay the next ejaculation. Other forms of sexual stimulation, focusing more on foreplay than penetration.
Kegel exercises are advised. Use of condoms has shown to be useful in this.
Pharmaceutical approach includes medications, topical anesthetics like lidocaine gel. I'm not gonna say more drugs here before you guys abuse anything. 😌
Counseling might go a long way as partners understanding each other and one feeling more secure would really help.
For erectile dysfunction, as for the many treatment options, get you a viagra tablet and she'd be happy for it. There are some attested herbal drinks my close friends once for though, they say it's legit. It has too many names for me to even consider recommending it.
Micropenis is a surgical issue, in my opinion, at least, for any real effect. Medical options include hormone therapy to stimulate growth.
Surgical options are considered when medications yield minimum or no results. Surgical penile implants could be done or a penile reconstruction. Penile reconstructions are usually done at a young age.
If problem 4 is yours, bro, got one advice for you. Foreplay! Start by changing your thinking and perception of sex. Start with this; sex isn't for you, it's for her!
Take your time, ain't no rush. Use your mouth, use your hands and it wouldn't even matter how well you use your penis. Doubt me? Ask Missandei in Game of thrones, the one that fell in love with a guy with no penis. Ask her!
I hope it was a fun and productive read. Have a great day guys. Ps; didn't know what to title the post. 😅
### Referencing https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/17955-micropenis
One, very early ejaculation. So, basically, you're in for 2 to 5 minutes and you're done. Bruh! That right there is a premature evacuation.
Funny, I have a friend who says he's okay with 5 to 7 minutes, says he doesn't have that kinda time anymore 🤣.
Two, now, this is my personal worst! It fucks with both parties moods and self-esteems. You want to guess? Yup! You guessed right! Or not? 🤷🏾♂️
Erectile dysfunction. So imagine a really hot girl, naked, walking towards you, and nope, no action. The penis just stays down like e no concern am.
As bad as the guy feels, and he's gonna feel bad because he's feeling incomplete, incapable, and probably like a waste of a man, believe me when I say the girl also feels terrible.
Now, girls, very delicate creatures, feel they are responsible for whatever the reason. They think they don't look good enough, the ones confident in their looks think they did something wrong.
This just spoils the entire atmosphere. Such vibe killer. Them fit even fight because of this thing sef or even breakup.
Three! "Size doesn't matter". This debate as been on-going for decades and will continue to do so. I'm not here to end it, I'm here to say one thing...
Size does matter... if it's the case of a condition termed micropenis. It's a real thing. And I tell you, it's a devastating thing.
Guys with this condition suffer from the worst types of insecurity and lowest of self-esteem. They suffer from depression and are exposed to unsafe health practices all in the quest to enlarge their penises.
Then someone says "what's the big deal in sex?" My dear, those are the people with no problems, when one as a miceopenis, or erectile dysfunction, or a girl with dyspareunia, that's painful sexual intercorse, then they'd appreciate what they have.
Four! My personal favorite! Bruh! You're just bad at it! Read a book! Ask your girl what she likes! Get better bro! 🤣
Ofcouse, the point of talking about a problem is to talk about the solution, except when the discussion is about Nigeria. 🤦🏾
Let's start with premature ejaculation. A number of factors have been said to cause it, such as sexual abuse, early sexual experience, insecurity, depression and interestingly, worry about ejaculating early.
So when you think about this problem, it happens! I'm currently thinking of the problem of having to handle $100million. Nope, still broke. Apparently only happens with this problem. 🤧
Well, having sex with someone you've been crushing on should do this too, I mean, from all the excitement.
So what to do? Let's start with the non-pharmaceutical. Behavior therapy. It's simple, options include masturbation, an hour or two before sex, this should help delay the next ejaculation. Other forms of sexual stimulation, focusing more on foreplay than penetration.
Kegel exercises are advised. Use of condoms has shown to be useful in this.
Pharmaceutical approach includes medications, topical anesthetics like lidocaine gel. I'm not gonna say more drugs here before you guys abuse anything. 😌
Counseling might go a long way as partners understanding each other and one feeling more secure would really help.
For erectile dysfunction, as for the many treatment options, get you a viagra tablet and she'd be happy for it. There are some attested herbal drinks my close friends once for though, they say it's legit. It has too many names for me to even consider recommending it.
Micropenis is a surgical issue, in my opinion, at least, for any real effect. Medical options include hormone therapy to stimulate growth.
Surgical options are considered when medications yield minimum or no results. Surgical penile implants could be done or a penile reconstruction. Penile reconstructions are usually done at a young age.
If problem 4 is yours, bro, got one advice for you. Foreplay! Start by changing your thinking and perception of sex. Start with this; sex isn't for you, it's for her!
Take your time, ain't no rush. Use your mouth, use your hands and it wouldn't even matter how well you use your penis. Doubt me? Ask Missandei in Game of thrones, the one that fell in love with a guy with no penis. Ask her!
I hope it was a fun and productive read. Have a great day guys. Ps; didn't know what to title the post. 😅
### Referencing https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/17955-micropenis
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So much for sex. How many minutes do you think a good sex should last if 5 to 7 minutes isn't enough? I mean, it is sex, not a marathon. As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing like premature ejaculation as long as the ejaculate is capable or fertilising eggs.
The female orgasm has absolutely no direction on the human evolution and yet, the most problematic. If your orgasm cannot catch up with mine, my sister, when I'm done climaxing, you can continue hustling for yours because me I don close shop. Don't be a long throat.
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You sound exactly like my friend! You're both terrible! 🤣
The female orgasm is a must! Guy, 5 minutes?! No na! 🤣 she go carry face till the next day sef!
The female orgasm is purely useless and only for pleasure. A Male's orgasm is important for the continuity of mankind. Nature has a way of arranging things by prioritizing the important ones. If the female orgasm is that important it would not have been so elusive. 7 minutes is the average for normal sex. Those of you that consider sex as another thing can go ahead and have it for hours.
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Agreed. But the post is about satisfying the ladies... not procreation. 😅