Thank you very much for reading my long blog and for your positive feedback.
we feel invaded by guilt and for whatever reason, for an oversight with someone we appreciate, for not doing what is necessary to help others, in short for many things.
You are right, it is a challenge to find a balance between taking responsibility for our deeds/misdeeds and being burdened by guilt. We all have to find a way of meeting the challenge.
Hope you have a great weekend.