If you're looking for 'normal', don't look here :))
I don't even use the word deviant. There is such an infinite variety of human potential. Who can quantify it.
I do have standards: Are you hurting people? If you are, then you need an intervention. Also, are you miserable? If so, you might want to seek advice, but be careful: those who try to help you may not know any more than you do.
Thanks for reading and commenting @itsostylish. Always an interesting perspective.