Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage As A Businessman - Part 3

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Good day everyone! This is the Part 3 of this interesting, informative and educative series, titled, Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage As A Businessman. If you have not read the Part 1 and Part 2, I advice you to read it before going on with this article, by clicking here for Part 1 and here for Part 2. For a businessman, getting married to the right spouse is very crucial for the success of your business, as a spouse could stand as your emotional, mental, physical and spiritual support which will drive you to achieving success. Sometimes, the perfect match might not agree with you on some important issues such as not having a child or not been very sexual, so there is great need for some important issues to be discussed before marrying that perfect match, in order to avoid a shitty divorce or an unhappy marriage life which might have great effects on your business and financial life. But don't worry because I am here to share with you all, some important issues you have to discuss with your partner before marriage, so as to have a good marriage. In this article, I will be dropping one solid important issue that must be discussed before marriage.


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This is one very important issue which must be discussed before marriage as it is very touchy subject which should be discussed in great length. Your religion and religious beliefs is something you don't mess with, and it is a very delicate subject which can make a very educated person behave like uneducated idiot. Your spouse should share similar mindset towards your religious beliefs because if she doesn't, the marriage is doomed to fail. You can't marry a dedicated Christian that loves going to every church activities and you are not a dedicated Christian, you don't like going to church at all. She might be managing it when you guys are dating, but after 4 - 6 months into the marriage, she will start complaining because you might begin to affect her desire for Christ, which she won't like. Now, that's a big issue. Will you forgo your religious way, in order to please your wife or not? During dating she might not think too much about it, but when married, it becomes a different ball game, as she will want to go to church and you are either working on your laptop or playing your PS5, it will piss her off. So, you have to have a length discussion with your partner over you guys religious beliefs and how you guys will be able to compromise each other shortcomings.


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Over here in Nigeria, religion is a big issue that has stopped many partners from getting married or broken their homes. Some parents in Nigeria do foresee the issue and will only give their daughters out to men that share similar religious beliefs with the family. Some go to the extent of only marrying members from the same Church. One of my close female friend has a broken family because of religious issue. Her parents are divorced now. Her mother is Christian and her father is Muslim, they thought they would be able to cope with each other, but as time went by, they found out they couldn't cope with their different religious beliefs, so they mutually had a divorce(glad it wasn't a shitty divorce). So before taking that big step, make sure you discuss about your religious beliefs so as not to have an unhappy marriage or shitty divorce that may ruin your future.


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I hope you found this article quite interesting, educative and informative, if so, do well to leave your thoughts in the comment section below. Thanks for reading.

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Kenny, how is this STEM?

Religion is very sacred, I can't marry someone who doesn't share my same religious beliefs. Thanks for this content because I wasn't thinking of it as a big issue that needed to be looked at but after reading through and thinking about it, I realised just hope important it really is.

Nice article @kenny-writes

Religious beliefs is a thing that everyone must discuss and understand before going into marriage, marriage is a very big and serious commitment to ignore this crucial point.

Hello friend, you are right, when we have business it is important to be with the right person, I believe that a partner can accompany you to success or lead you to destruction. That depends on us, that we know how to choose. and with respect to religion it is important to be in agreement because that can lead to many problems and disagreements. Greetings!

Wow ! Thats a really important guidance for some one in business before he gets married

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