RE: Flirt Forgone
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I think how to flirt is not a required skill in today's world where most things are measured materially. Before flirting, you should have a car, enough money and a house. Otherwise, it could end up with disappointment.
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I am not sure how old you are, but I don't think this is the case - the disappointment comes when even with all of the material things - the person is disappointing as a partner. If a person isn't attractive as a partner without all material possessions, they aren't going to be attractive with.
It is not like that anymore, at least what I have observed in the last 10 years.
I know a lot of lonely people in their 20s and early 30s. They meet people, but nothing works. They blame others.
I think that people have got used to live alone in time, particularly for two years. One can't stand other. Through technology, our smart phones have seperated us from each other.
I may mean negative, but this is what I have seen.
The "got used" isn't contentment, it seems more resignation. However, when people talk, they are still looking for connection and intimacy - not just sex.
Perhaps, they looking for the connection and the intimacy in the good old days.
Do you mean you think younger people have evolved and no longer need intimacy?
In fact, I mean people at their 30s or 40s. If you mean the gen Z by younger people, intimacy has evolved into Tik Tok, Insta Reels, Story for them.
That is not intimacy, which is why so many of them are struggling emotionally in life apparently.