RE: Steam falls down

I think for many, they are already so disconnected and incapable in the physical world that they are welcoming in the chance to unbind themselves from it, so they are diving further into a solitary life, filled with other solitary individuals, pretending that they are all in it together. Perhaps one day the plane of existence will be crossed and it will be a full shift over, but that is unlikely to be the case in my lifetime at least, though many will try.

Just wait a few years until you have no more responsibilities. That no one else depends on you anymore and that you only have yourself as the only person you have to care of and take charge of. And then, we'll talk again about the same subject. };)

It is like with the people who "don't want relationships" tend to be the people who are not able to develop healthy relationships.

Nope, it is because they are already tired of developing and having healthy and non healthy relationships with others for a long time now. And most probably, what they are looking for now is feel free to establish better and healthier relationships with themselves.

And of course, that all this that I am telling you is only from the perspective and viewpoint provided by the experience of an old man who has already lived, seen and experienced many things which invariably are almost always acquired exclusively with age.

The people who make the decision not to have children for example, is it that they don't actually want them or, is it that they have been conditioned through various aspects of their consumer experience not to want them? It is an impossible question to answer perhaps, but I wonder if there was a way to know real intention, would the biological desire for having children be static over time, if it wasn't influenced by culture?

Nope, it is not an impossible question to answer. If they are truly responsible, it is most likely that they have realized that they do not have the time, the money or the optimal conditions to have them and take care of them properly at that time, which only would make everyone's life even more difficult.

And last but not least. Congratulations on having reached the milestone of no longer having to eat precooked food and now being able to cook whatever you want, whenever you want and however you want. :)