Principles that governs Family life & Relationship

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When one's love becomes conditional, it implies he/she finds a reason to love you. When a man finds a reason to love a woman, he'll definitely find a reason to stop loving her, when the reason for the love is no more there.

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When you begin a relationship, you're vulnerable by default. There will definitely be many situations ringing through your mind ranging from feelings of emotional connection, fear of uncertainties such as insecurities, imbalances, fate of future expectations and so on and so forth. One thing you'll also need to know is that you both come from different homes, background and works of life and might have different psychology or reasonable perspective about life, love and relationship, so there will be a crucial need for a high level of mutual understanding, patience and emotional maturity to build trust and love amidst all these circumstances and salvage through this course for a lifetime.

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Now, I'll like to briefly reveal the principle that governs family life and relationship from my perspective and personal discoveries over the years. So, my write-up is subject to scrutiny and contributions as no one is an Island of knowledge, so, I'm learning too😊. Thank you

Principle that governs family and Relationship

To understand the principle that governs family life and relationship, the first term we need to define, is the concept of love because the concept of love in the perspective of a man is quite different from that of a woman.

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From Man's perspective, Love means honour and respect. That's why a woman's beauty can fade away like a leaf if she remains disrespectful to her man or husband. Honour for your man is expected to be held in a high estem as the man is the head over you and your children. In the same measure, It is men's primary duty to love and care for their wife and family. So love for a man is backed up by action, driven by honour and respect in return for his love and this will definitely make a positive impact in building a healthy relationship and family life.

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Love for a lady means maximum care and attention. Attention means caring and sensitivity, timeliness, affection or emotional bonding backed up by total commitment. All these are in accordance with their order of priority.

Women are fashioned by default to be helpmate for their man as their desires are aimed toward their husband. Your respect for your man should be unconditional. The emotional or fragile configuration of a lady or woman was designed as a template on purpose, and that's why women are designed to be submissive and respond to issues while men are designed to absorb and moderate issues. No man wants to mortgage his destiny for a disrespectful or pretentious woman. When the concept of love is not defined from the onset of a relationship, there's tendency that abuse, chaos and anarchy will definitely become the order of the day as time goes on.

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A man's life is definitely incomplete and inbalanced without a woman. A Woman is like a fertile land where man sows his seed and reap whatever he sows in multiple fold (i.e they are multipliers). This accounts for the reason women are seen as the institute that birth lives into existence. So, whatever a man sows in his woman, he'll surely reap back in multiple folds. If you sow joy, you reap multiple joy in return and if you sow tears, it will be multiplied back as well. That's the more reason why many men's life seems distabilized despite their position of wealth and honour because they fail to understand this multiplication principle about women. This is the more reason a man need to sow love in his woman rather than sowing discord or hatred which might multiply back in return.

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