HANDLING CORRECTIONS OR CRITICISMS || LOH #85

in Ladies of Hive4 months ago

I view criticism as a great source of learning to improve myself however, it depends on how the criticism is being generated. Some people criticize out of jealousy or probably dislike and with those set of people, I don't hesitate to press my ignore button and move on. To me, it's negative energy that is not permitted to weigh me down or interfere with my dreams depending on the angle the critic is coming from.

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We all have our different ideas, and opinions about life and it's not expected that everyone will accept the perspective we see life and so we get corrections and criticism from people. It is also very easy for us to criticize others but when we receive critics from people, it might hurt especially when it is an honest one. The truth is always bitter to accept but then, taking time to look into what the critics are all about will go a long way in unfolding some areas of our attitude that ordinarily, we ignored.

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Come to think of it, we can't see our back. It's people around us that serve as a mirror on our back by correcting and criticizing us to become a better version of ourselves. If I am not being told that I did the wrong thing in one way or the way, I may not notice it.

Let me share a practical example here, during my last birthday, I invited some of my friends (Ladies ) to come to cheer me up and celebrate me. At the end of the party, I gladly told them to criticize me. Oh, how I loved and welcome the criticism from the ladies. They mentioned many good and bad things about me that I never noticed. I began to work on them to unlock a better me and I am excited at my progress so far.

In summary, I welcome corrections and criticism even here on Hive and wherever I find myself if not out of dislike and I have an open mind to always adjust.

This is my entry to the Ladies of Hive Community Contest #85 and I hereby invite @jmis101 and @merit.ahama to participate.

Thanks for visiting my blog.

Remember to keep staying positive and be happy 😊💞🥰🧡

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We all have our different ideas, and opinions about life and it's not expected that everyone will accept the perspective we see life and so we get corrections and criticism from people.

Funny enough some people will force you to accept their opinion though.

It's people around us that serve as a mirror on our back by correcting and criticizing us to become a better version of ourselves.

Exactly, though the truth is bitter and we will sometimes think the person only see the bad side.
Forgetting that nobody is perfect and it was so nice of the person to tell you wrong preferably in a polite way.

Nice write up dear friend, thanks for the invite.
Have a blessed day.

The truth is indeed bitter but it's a sure path to self discovery and improvement .

Glad you like my write up.
Thank you my darling friend ❣️

Criticism for the sake of Criticism is all poisonous. It only comes to hurt us. Criticism for the sake of correction is a gift from someone that we should accept with open heart. Though it is difficult but it is beneficial.

Your open-mindedness @nkemakonam89 towards hearing your flaws would always help you in continuous growth.

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Oh yes, I agree with you.

Many thanks my dear👍

You are most welcome

True what you say, that truth hurts but when seen at a better perspective, we do learn from them and become better. And it's great that you know when to press your ignore button too and not allow bad energy to weigh you down.

Loved how you invited your friends to criticize you and that you used their feedback to make yourself improve :) That's amazing!

Awwwnn, that is it, many thanks for your kind words.
Much appreciated !

Certainly friend, each head is a world, that's why there are things that it is easy for us to point out to others, just because we don't understand or know their life story.
That is why sometimes it is better to know before judging or criticizing, it is preferable to correct or guide.

Good that these corrections have made you a better person.

Yes, it's preferable to correct or guide like in my case, it help revealed my inner self which I am proud of today.

Criticisms constructive is okay
But criticizing with bitter words is a no no

Good read nkem
This days your articles are so spot on
Good work

Wowwww
I feel like dancing 🤩😝💃💃💃

Thank you so much for the soothing compliments .
Just trying hard to be like you🤩

Like you said, I won't hesitate to press the ignore buttons because I need no sort of negativity in my life right now! It's either I pushed them out of my way or I choose to ignore!

Criticism has its advantages and disadvantages one of the advantages is that it helps you see through that person and secondly one of the disadvantages is it weighs you down that's if you allow it!

Well written!

Wowww
Great contributions my dear
Thank you so much 👍

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Indeed my friend. good luck in your participation.Las críticas marcan y dejan huellas. Está en nosotros cambiarlas o transformarlas..

Thank you sis.
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