Why me, again?

The deep Sense of friendship, and resonance of love.

Everyone needs attention and care, we all choose the perfect people to pay are attention to, and show them that we truly care about them. Even in their distress, and in all time.

I am already skeptical whenever, it takes my attention to write about love and passionate emotional issues such a love and likeness. Because it pushes me to exude more around too many issues.

We all want to be love, but it is so painful to love and not being loved, this could lead to perpetual hatred and emotional down. I am a young man who wishes to be loved, they say address people, in the way you would like to be addressed.

Nothing exists to me as spending my day with people, I love, and people who value me and the love I show to them. I have never turned down love before. Not that love has not been turning me down. It has on many occasions.

But as someone who believes in love, I put in all my energy to make sure that, the people I love feel comfortable with me the love I share with them. Feel some years back, I suffered a terrible heart break.

Which affected my behavior around people for some time. It took a lot of hard work to get back, all thanks to my mum and family who stood by me. That didn't mean she was the only girl. But loving someone is a responsibility, and I was in for that.

Never knew I was busy stalking my life. When true love is not reciprocated back by those I truly love, it hurts me so much. It is better you tell me, no and walk away than staying to create a false impression about you.

During my days in secondary school, I had some click of people I thought were my friends, and they thought I was their friends too. It was a very solid relationship. We all started it on a solid ground.

But as time kept progressing, I realized that some set of these fellows didn't like me. I stated noticing that they don't tell me things about them, even our group reading, I am no longer carried alone just like it used to be.

So I disconnected myself from them, I couldn't force myself on people to love me even like me, so didn't force couple with them. It such case you we see that our my love was taken for granted.

When I love people, I don't take them for granted, I am not ashamed of the people. I am the same person who stood in the classroom to declare my love for a girl. I would rather not call attention to myself.

That was how I felt about her, it is love, so when people love they are creating a chance to be loved. Loving people is a hobby, regardless of the statue.

I feel maybe we were incomparable, but even if it seems so, I try my best to maintain, and end it well. The worst thing that can happen to two lovers or friends is not breaking up, or going your separate ways.

It how you ended the relationship, the world is just a small place to be. I learn how to love, but in the case where it doesn't work at, I try my best to end it in a very amicable way. Why because I know we will cross part again someday?

Some people always want me to change, from whom as was before meeting them. Well, changing is not that bad, but it depends on why I should change, and what am I changing to become?

I just feel that anyone who doesn't appreciate my time, thoughts, and accept me, my right and correct my wrong doesn't deserve me. So people who I have broken tires with them don't deserve me.

No one should coat my sin, I rather work with an enemy who in Jokes tell me the truth. Instead of a loved one, I trust and care about telling me lies. He can easily kill me, but the assume enemy would protect and save me.

Love to me is something I just accept how it comes, people are not perfect either are mine, so everybody with one inherit flaws or the other. How I managed this kind of situation in my relationship, is to keep an eye open, for the positive things about this person.

Of course, truth is including highly inclined by truth, we don't need to stay around the loved ones that lie to us, jokey or in anywhere. Someday, they would hurt you with it, in a more mature way. I make sure that love, truth, sincerity is the hub of my love for people.

I feel people would always have issues with Truth, my prayers each day is that I shouldn't meet people who do not like to hear the truth. Even though I eventually meet them, they shouldn't be so close people to me.

Because I can't step outside truth from my responsibility affairs with people, no it doesn't work that way. What is the essence of sweeping my friend's wrong under the Capet. I know he might hurt me in the same manner.

I don't expect too much from people, more specially those I love, not because I have it all. Likewise, I have it this way, that any way I approach love, I should pay attention to the well be of the next person.

Even though many I love and paid attention to what we shared took it for granted. It all part of love, after all, I wasn't expecting much from them. Loving, and being loved, is the best thing that can ever happen to one's emotions and feelings.

We all need love, attention, I don't see the point of being hash to love, instead keep close I, accept the fact that we all are humans. My friends at that point wanted to space out. So I understood and gave them that space to maintain my sanity.

I made new friends, get alone with other people, Learn and shapes my views from what I used to know. Seeing things working differently. But I didn't keep malice, it was just a time we went our separate ways, and we all did; in peace, because of love.

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