Why I Abandoned My Childhood Dreams and Found My True Calling

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As little kids, one of the things we do the most is dream, and that's where most of our futures are built today. Many of us have become one of those things we dreamed of being as kids, although not many have followed their dreams. Some of us left because of what life had available for us or eventually realised another dream we wanted to pursue.

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I am not excluded from those kids who had so many dreams; I thought of many jobs that I wanted to do, from being a footballer to an astronaut to a doctor and eventually an Engineer.

So why did I want to be a football player?

Although most of my friends may not believe this or would possibly argue with me, football used to be my favourite sport. I loved playing football so well as a kid and envied most of the footballers on TV. I wanted to be a footballer because it felt like being paid for what you love doing instead of having to read a lot of books and theories to have knowledge on this or that. Just do what you do naturally and make your bucks.

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But why am I not a football player today?

During my time, being a footballer was not an option for my parents, as they wanted me to finish school and study something more professional. As there was not much encouragement towards seeing the possibility of a future as a footballer, I had to keep dreaming of a new career.

Then I thought of becoming a lawyer.

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I loved arguing, talking, and proving a point. Everyone was saying law would fit me because I was good at asking questions and wanting to know Why this is Why. I was not afraid of the crowd, and I loved winning arguments.

Then Why am I not a Lawyer today?

I hated reading books; I hated reading history and government. It put a lot of stress on my brain, and as a kid, I hated reading in general, although I found interest in reading about science topics. They fascinated me. I was better in mathematics, physics, and chemistry than I was in Civil Education, history, and government. I knew this was not my way, and I kept dreaming.

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What about the possibility of being an Astronaut? Yeah, this came to mind, but I feared drying out in space or crashing on the journey. Moreover, my country does not seem like a place where it is possible to become an astronaut. I went on to keep dreaming and wanted to become something for which I was not sure what the name was at the time.

What I knew I loved doing was pressing the phone. I know where to find all the available settings on the phone. If anybody wants to solve a problem with their phone, I am the go-to person. I entirely love the software of the phone and the way the features were built. I was saying I wanted this, but I didn't know what name was given to it. I didn't know what I really wanted was to be a software engineer, focused on building operating systems, mobile applications, and all that. But still, I dreamed.

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My father was an Electronics engineer, although he focused on the maintenance and repairs of Elevators and Escalators. Back in the day, my father repaired televisions and Computers. People would bring their old computers. Remember those old computers back in the day that had a back that shot out? Yeah, those are the computers my dad repaired back then.

I envied him and said I wanted to be an Engineer. I was not sure which Engineer I wanted to be, but I was more passionate about it because I loved the concept of how our phones, laptops, televisions, and even our washing machines were built. I wanted to know how they were programmed and all that. I did a little research into the different fields of engineering and found out that there was Electrical, mechanical, and Computer Engineering.

I had to find out what each field was for, and along the way, I saw Mechatronics and Robotics Engineering. This was back when I was in high school. I was so interested in this field that I found out it was a mix of the three engineering types I figured out earlier and got informed that the learning curve of mechatronics was higher because of how broad the course was.

That was not enough to stop me from dreaming big. I locked into that dream, and every effort I have placed since then has been into shaping that dream, and today I am a 400-level student of Mechatronics Engineering and have built some skills in programming, most especially Arduino Programming. Aside from that, I am also learning about Cloud and DevOps engineering, which is another field I got interested in along the way. I hope to focus on this field and use my knowledge of Arduino programming to build projects in my free time, making it something like a side hobby.


𝙰𝙱𝙾𝚄𝚃 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝙰𝚄𝚃𝙷𝙾𝚁


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One thing I can say is a child we have so many fantasies but in the end as we grow we begin to find our true parts.

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Interesting
I guess dreams changes with time. You may be interested in something today and after a while, you find interest in another thing maybe because you have found out that you are interested in that other thing too...
Well, it means that you have discovered that you know how to do that. You have had so many dreams
Omo you be boss
Kudos to you, our Engineer

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lol... a child is free to dream. I am sure that I am not the only one who may have had so many dreams as a child.

I am glad that I have found my true passion now. and I am working towards getting better. Thank you for your nice comment.

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This reminds me of how I wished to sing to the world, simply because I was so interested in the Nigerian project fame that year, I also loved the Nigerian Idol, I was always following the program back then, but I just know music is not a career for me, I can say it's more of a hobby, wishing you success as a mechatronist. 👍

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Lol... that is true... Project fame is not around any longer. That used to be the most watched family program of that time. My parents and sibling never want to miss an episode but now, everything changes with time.

So what are you doing now?

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Now I sing in the choir😀 even though I'm not so consistent, but I'm reconsidering going back to that.

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You sure jumped around a bit. But I think you’ve proven that you can basically learn anything and do multiple things. Yeah astronaut. I don’t think there are too many of those in the world 😜

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Yeah, I really did jump around a bit. As a kid anything that fascinated me, was something I would love to give a try. but as I grew older I got to understand some things and know better what I really want.

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You sure had so many things you dreamed of being, well I think as children, our dreams then is not really the real thing, but through the journey of life, we eventually find out true dreams, yea, because it's not limited to one dream. And so far you are gotten a big dream for your self, more success on your journey of acquisition of those dreams.

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Yeah exactly... As I said earlier life is a journey of discovery. We get to discover stuff we would like and later settle for what that is most beneficial to us

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Now I'm smiling as this post reminds me of my childhood dream. I wanted to be a doctor and was already working towards it, but, somehow I found out I love animals and plants and anything related to agriculture.

Right now, I'm studying animal breeding and genetics but I'm getting more interested in the tech and sales field which I am already working on.

So many grown ups don't actually get to achieve their childhood dreams and desire because of what life offers when one gets older.

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You dreamed a lot and it’s beautiful to see that one of your childhood dreams clicked. Mr Tech guy😎

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Yeah, I am glad that one of them click. I think for almost every child, they may have to chose one of their dreams at the end.

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Most people does went for what they dreamt of but later got cut short along the way. Some got cut short just because of finance why some dreamt the wrong one and discovering themselves at a later hour.

Yours was exceptional. You got what you wanted.

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God's grace did it. It is not just me... thanks for your nice words.

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