Envy In Man
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Today I was prompted to write this based on "Envy In Man" due to a recent incident that happened between two friends few weeks ago, on that note today I will talking about the "Envy In man" well I tell you that everyone born of man has this destructive emotion that made up this behavioral act which is bad, good all depends on you uses, managed or control at the initial stage of it, meanwhile envy is regarded as universal emotion that reside within the human psyche that tend to encroach on what other people possess, this can be stem from different source that lead lead to this, although sometimes, this can be for good but most time is on a negative part is known which is the part am to talk about, because this emotional act can be disastrous in it nature when is not properly managed.
When this is probably managed or controlled, is when is actually utilized on the good side, envy of man we all know can came as result of the neighborhood achievement, physical attributes, material possession, relationship and even someone neighborhood accomplishment, envy of man be a powerful tool to achievement as it works as a catalyst but In the other way round can be disastrous that lead to complex different issues.
Envy is quite toxic as it can build resentment that leads to unimaginable toxified comparison within the range or cycle of another man's possession, hence this so-called envy can tamper with someone's relationship, happiness and causes discord that causes division among two or more.
Hence to Maintain and control this irreplaceable natural emotions that every individual has is by acknowledge this emotion when ever it arise by subduing it to Minimal point where it can be cannot dictate our self worth over others, rather is more recommended to channel such an energy to sometime what for such as personal growth, being realistic in achieving your goals and appreciating someone's perspective instead of envying, hence all this are main to build sense of contentment within someone life.
Adopting some measure such as empathy, and having good remorse over others' success is a bullet point that arrests this case of envy of man.
Unnecessary Individual Comparison: This is one a main cause of envy among human nature, meanwhile this always comes as result of having yourself compared to someone's achievement, which is not not ideal and normally, hence on the aspect developing it is based on the more you keep comparing, the more other level of envy is unlocked such the more outrageous one that could be in terms developing negative perspective over other.
Having Resentment Or Bitterness Of Mind: This is another dimension of it that can be dangerous when not properly taken care of, because this symptom is already built and surrounded with negative thoughts that tend to manifest through envy.
Overly Competitive Behavior: This is more of the normal envy that manifests from the act of competitions that is related within a social circle, hence the envy here manifests from having the mindset or emotion to win or to overcome or to be at top as a winner of the competition.
Always Criticizing: Whenever there is development in having negative comments over something that is good, shows that the charisma for envy is developed, hence when there is prolonged criticism lead to this envy some men experience.
• Developing and being grateful towards thing is a way to overcome this, rather having a the mindset to be contempt with what you have is necessary and what doing in place to subdue the rise of envy, meanwhile wherever there is gratitude there is scarcity of envy within that space.
• Also self awareness is necessary because it helps you to regain and have control over you subconsciousness as human, with that recognize your bad feeling and make quick correction, hence recognizing this helps a lot in managing envy most especially in the early stage.
• Recognizing someone's success as part of inspiration is what is needed instead of seeing as a threat that triggers and develops envy, it is advisable to utilize the envious energy of improving yourself.
• Avoiding unnecessary Comparison can be a step to withheld this act of envy, which can be done through reducing the extent of exposure to social media flirting, hence it is necessary to understand that men live curated lifestyles offline while they are online.
Humans have nothing to deny from envy, it all depends on how you manage and treat it. Ultimately recognizing the perspective of envy helps in different ways which could be positively or negatively inclined, hence on this occasion envy can be outrageous when it is controlled or managed by understanding the emotional influence.
Hence recognizing this emotional feeling is a step ahead to take the average of it in improving your own self, hence acknowledging it and channeling to the right direction helps all to develop the best out of our self esteem while keeping breach over it negative impact in our life as man.
