THE CORONA PHENOMENON

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My man and I like to play cards.
Some games have a very exciting course, take much longer than others. Which is because the players vary their strategies. When I see that my hubby only has a few cards in his hand and seems about to win and I keep a cool head, I manage to prolong the game.

Dracula Vampira

Von Brett Francis from United States of Amercia - Dracula vampira fullUploaded by Orchi, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=11116277

What do I usually do then? I sit it out, don't play my hand, but observe which cards he can't use and avoid acting hastily. My experience tells me that if I wanted to force my win or thought I was playing an excellent hand, I would surprisingly let myself leave the table as the loser. This was because I was only focusing on my own hand, but I was not paying enough attention to his hand.

So, for example, when I want to annoy him, I ask for a suit of which it was clear that neither of us was holding it. Such an extension of the game always led to greater enjoyment of the game, because that's what playing is all about: Having fun, keeping it alive. But what keeps the game alive is not only the strategy, but also the amount of luck that every game contains. If everything was just pure chance and my hand was accompanied by bad luck or good luck, the game would be boring, but if everything was dominated by strategy alone, it would also lack liveliness.

This mixture of both is a very nice metaphor for the current events. The Corona phenomenon. What kind of player am I? One who relies heavily on security and keeps supposedly winning cards until the end, wants to be prepared for all eventualities? Often enough I have to admit that this strategy makes me lose. So while I'm hoarding my winning cards, trying to get rid of all the unimportant cards, I have to watch my opponent, who takes a far greater risk, beat me in the end. Then I sit there and get angry that I didn't let myself get a chance. Too much reliance on security has the unpleasant effect of making my passivity of playing pay off. I have lost the fun of playing risky games.

The comparison with life and its dangers is by no means ridiculous. There is a difference: doing nothing out of fear or prolonging the game alive by leaning back and taking up new cards, more and more until my hand is full again, but also the other hand's. If you think there are only two alternatives to play: full risk or full security, you are neglecting the many other variations and also the mentality in which I am able to play a game.

Dracula Posadarum

Von Orchi - Selbst fotografiert, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=6002905

In the case of Corona: what are the other cards?

In principle, the game provides countless, infinite symbols and colours. I just have to find and use them. One interesting scientific text I provide for is this one - The history of Koch's postulates 1840-2000. I won't list all the other alternative sources here in the text. Maybe I'll add it within the next days or in another blog.

When did I ever lose? When I become unemployed? When I can't pay my rent anymore? If I were the only one who could no longer finance the roof over my head, that would indeed be a difficult situation. So I imagine one bad case scenario: That I would have to pay my rent due to an acute emergency situation. I would not simply do nothing. I would enter into negotiations, engage in open communication. I would talk to my landlord and describe my situation to him. For example, I would use my own reputation. Have I been an annoying tenant, someone my landlord was constantly arguing with? Or have we had a reasonable and humane form of communication? In other words: Have I played fair in the past? That would definitely affect the game, wouldn't it?

If I hadn't thought about an important question before the current phenomenon, I would have had an excellent opportunity to do so now, in the last few weeks.

How do I want to live? How to play? Live and play: For me, in many cases, those are synonyms. Do I have to pretend that life on this earth is always a very serious matter? Of course, laughter and humour always seem to be treated like criminals when you are confronted with great consternation. The general fascination with "death figures" and "people in need of rescue", the "protection of the old and weak", this playing card configuration is frequently pulled out of the sleeve.

Dracula Chimaera

Von Orchi - Selbst fotografiert, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=6021475

In fact, I did not - in a first touch of fear and insecurity - think of "others, old and weak". I was afraid for my own life, my own mental and physical health. For a while I imagined that I would be infected by the virus - but nowhere did such thoughts lead anywhere but to even more fear.

The thing is: In this game, I would do well not to articulate everything all the time. Once the rules of the game have been established, they are not as meticulous and above all they are not absolute. We change the rules more often, expand the game, agree on some new points in the game. But we don't judge each other when luck and strategy influence the outcome of the game, because everyone is lucky or unlucky, because you never really stop playing.

To demand luck and good cards "for all": Is that realistic?

Is it even feasible? And if you really want to do it, what other rules do you violate? Because one thing should be clear: safety for all does not necessarily mean playing a more lively and better game. "The dignity of the player"; I don't want to touch it, nor force anyone else to always play for safety. If he thinks he wants to do this, he should do it, but not demand it of me. As a rule, my dignity often looks different from the dignity of my fellow player. Comparing it with me usually brings only trouble.

Everyone has a role in this great game: there are the cheaters, the bluffers, the safety players, the risk-takers, the reckless, the off-showers, the daring, the sensible, the sensitive, those who prefer to let the other person win, and so on. We all play more or less hide and seek with each other.

What humans forget too easily is how tough we are as a species.

I mean, how much a human being can really cope with compared to what he imagines he can't cope with, is probably worth paying attention to at the moment.

In fact, we are not currently experiencing any real physical pain, such as that caused by hunger or a really bad epidemic, where you can see real symptoms out there in the world. Those of us who were part of the generation that experienced malnutrition and aching stomachs from hunger may remember and find the current situation strange. A virus can't do us affluent people much harm if we have enough varied food, water and it's why and dry in winter temperatures or cooling in heat. Whether modern medicine can even claim to have eliminated special viral diseases through vaccinations is and will remain unproven, since the hygienic and nutritional conditions have improved and changed extremely for modern people with supermarkets on every corner.

Bela Lugosi as Count Dracula

Screenshot from "Internet Archive" of the trailer for Dracula (1931) - https://archive.org/details/Dracula1931-Trailer, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=11678809

Recently, in the very latest Dracula series on Netflix, I heard a truly remarkable sentence from our much loved and feared Count:

"I knew the future would bring wonders, I never imagined it would make them ordinary."

There are times when “The Dark Compass” justifies the decision to time-shift the final chapter of the Dracula story 123 years into the vampire’s future—into 2020, in other words.

One of the best comes early, as Count Dracula surveys a random woman’s home, observing that her television and appliances represent luxuries beyond the comprehension of any of his noble contemporaries. “I knew the future would bring wonders,” he says. “I never imagined it would make them ordinary.”

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Even heating a king's castle was a pain and even for kings and super rich leaders it was not possible to receive strawberries during winter times.

In fact, people have always died and are still dying from a combination of bacteria and viruses in connection with poor nutrition, lack of water, lack of hygiene and impoverishment of the immediate environment. None of this is found in civilizations that have such an abundance of readily available food and amenities. In relation, few die of the virus. And let's not fool ourselves: No doctor can give a certain answer anyway, if one has died because of the virus "alone". Think it through. How can one die of a single cause?

Would you want to have that as a single diagnose for yourself or your family members? "She died from Corona." ... I wouldn't.

So it seems to me to be a paradox.

Something that triggers psychic anxiety subsequently triggers some effects that will also impact the material world. Our popular TV-philosopher Richard David Precht called it, in a way, "the longing for a catastrophe", a desire for extreme experiences.

Playing with luck, creating dangerous scenarios seems to be left as the only way to get into a survival mode. We humans seem to like that. Now, look at the movies and narratives, at the numerous fantasy stories and films where man is facing direct threats. That seems to be something we long for. Of course we only long for it to survive a threat and not to lose our lives. So we can talk about it afterwards. To have a story of meaning. To put the events into anecdotes. Worth telling. Of course, some people do die. That's the game. Otherwise we could not play. We are very inventive in creating scenarios where we put ourselves in either real physical or imagined dangers.

Vlad the Impaler

Von Theodor Aman - [1], Gemeinfrei, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=1007154

The mask wearers, nowadays seen everywhere in the streets,

are the visible symbol for a life threat. They bring the imagination onto the side walks. And while they annoy me I say to myself at the same time: Don't let yourself being unnerved by it. You are witnessing a time of great potentials. This is it. The thing many people have been waiting for. Don't spoil it into the usual mourns and worries.

The exploding expressions in the Internet attests the great interest in catastrophic events. People talk a lot about what changes and dangers do lay ahead of us and what we cannot let being taken away from us.

... We'll see.



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Hello Erika,

I am very ignorant when it comes to card games. But I read the parallels you drew with such games and life (especially in our current situation) with great interest. Like you, I believe there is a certain art in finding the balance between taking risks and leaning back. However, as you skillfully pointed out the art is first and foremost in finding the many variations that lie between the two extremes, which is what gives room to negotiations, to be imaginative… Or, in your own words, to play the game.

I also agree with your remark about us being tough game players as a species and I try to keep a close eye on how this strength help us get through this ‘corona phenomena’, as you put it. Quite a few things have impressed me so far (e.g. people’s level of cooperation, and dedication to maintain normalcy).

I disagree with some of the observations you made. I do prefer to reflect on them a little longer before raising questions. And isn’t this one of the great things about reading your writings? :) That element of challenge they bring with them!

It’s so good seeing you around.
I trust you and all your loved ones are safe and sound <3

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Hello, Abigail,
how good to hear from you. I hope you and yours are well, but I trust that you are. The last few weeks have been a time for all of us in a way I don't think any of us have ever experienced before. I wrote the above text out of a spontaneous mood, after I had written and reflected a lot for myself.

What have you been up to during this time? Were you able to work? I observed my surroundings and how my fellow men in Hamburg dealt with the situation. I am working again - after a couple of days of absence - and have a halfway normal everyday life. For me, this is once again an example of moving in a contradictory relationship of tension, where things can be seen sometimes in one way and sometimes in the other. I see myself wishing back a normality and dealing with impatience and uncertainty, while at the same time telling myself that we humans are often more intelligent than we think. There is often a difference between talking and feeling and I think the will to work together is there.

I think it is a strength that we humans are so different and I am learning again that my own attitude is not the only true one.

If you don't play cards: Do you have other games that you play with your husband or yours? For me, playing is also always an expression of possibilities, getting to know each other and a quite direct form of interaction, which I like.

Spring is helping us right now, everything is on its way. I enjoy the blossoming trees and plants.

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Good morning Erika :)

Yes! I guess that it is when we learn that our own attitudes are not the only true ones that we come to value differences :) I have been able to keep some work/studies going. Other than that, life at home continues similar to what it was before. I do call family in Brazil way more often these days!

I don't really play games. But I have always loved jigsaw puzzles <3
My brother and husband like gifting me those! :)

Stay safe and keep on sharing your reflections with us.
They are enlightening!

<3 :)

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Thank you, Abi :)

Valuing differences is one of the toughest trainings one can put oneself into. I often tell myself, when I see my opinion tightening up that all people do have a certain reason to view things. One can have another perspective yet that doesn't mean that I must become an enemy to those who differ from my view.

Jigsaws, yes I liked to do them with my son when he was little. I find it very soothing, it's kind of a zen-like action :)

Are you planning on another article?

Sincere greetings to you!

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I'm glad to hear that you're good during the Corona crisis. Cheers! :)

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Thank you. I was quietly looking at your blog once in a while, that gave me the reassurance that you are good, too.
Greetings to you!

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Hi Erika! Nice to read from you again. It has been a long time I didn’t spend time in reading your texts :)

I almost agree with the following idea present in this post: Life is often a game, but not always. But not “not always” in the sense you put it. I think that sometimes life has to be taken seriously, but rather when our actions or responsibilities may impact others (relatives in particular). I would not push it further… because it is complicated. Yeah, life is not funny everyday for everyone. That is a fact. But is this a reason why we should not enjoy our own lives? Instead, I would enjoy my life and see what I could do to make the other’s life more enjoyable.

I hope you are safe!

PS: interesting parallel between life, a card game, and vampires… ;)

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I am happy to greet you here, @lemouth!
I became a rare visitor myself to the blog of yours and others. Though we can certainly exchange already memories and ask each other: "remember"? :) Interesting to see all the changes this blockchain has undergone. Nothing stands still in live.

Yes, true, some things are beyond looking at them through the game lens. But not many ;-) HaHa!
I am trying to meet things through humor and shedding a different light towards an issue, mostly, to get into my own reflection and become more relaxed.

Apart from my philosophical and psychological approaches I mostly try to be pragmatic. I find that helps a lot finding through every day life. And stay interested in those of others.

You put it very good:

Instead, I would enjoy my life and see what I could do to make the other’s life more enjoyable.

I find that you changed quite a bit since I got to "know" you. If ever someone can claim to know someone else :) I think you open your mind more often and have sincere things to say. Thank you. You really made my moment of reading your comment enjoyable.

:) Yes, card games and vampires are fields of interest to me. Maybe I should craft a vampire card game. :D Have you seen the newest Dracula on Netflix? I find it very brutal, though and would have wished for less slaughtering scenes but the main character - sister Agatha - made my day! I wish to be fearless in the exact same way.

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I have not changed that much. I always was someone having fun in what he was doing, trying to do some good according to my means. This is still how I live now. But maybe spending weeks with my kids around and having my wife working on the front reshaped me... who knows? :)

To answer the latest part: we don't have Netflix :D

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Yeah, who knows? It's always interesting how one sees oneself and how other people take their views.

Having no Netflix qualifies you as resistant against the mainstream. LOL :D

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What about someone who prefers reading? :D

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