When we ourselves move away from success
It is almost impossible not to be able to link our ability to succeed to the fact that there are certain negative attitudes that we often have and do not realize, but that in the end these attitudes keep us away from success.
Life experiences have taught me to be able to diagnose the attitudes that at the beginning I thought were good to apply to my life, but that in the end, because of not achieving the goal of the proposed objectives, I have been able to conclude that they have been my attitudes, that without knowing it or at least initially I have not accepted that they are bad attitudes and that they have distanced me from what I have wanted for myself and that in the end they have ended up distancing me from what success means for my life.
We cannot talk about success without explaining the different contexts in which it takes place, that is to say, in our lives, success is to be able to achieve the goals set in any field, be it work, in our studies, in our love life, among others.
An attitude that I had to correct over the years that was preventing me from being successful was not having a position and be firm before the great challenges, while it is true that there are difficult goals to achieve, we lose nothing by trying, in the end a failure is simply a learning experience for when we try again, but sometimes I did not start for fear of failure, but after a while I wondered: What would have happened if I had tried?
If we do not undertake, we will never know what would have happened, so in the end I have been able to come to the conclusion that the most important attitude that I have had to correct and that life experience has shown me that I have to correct, is the fact of losing the fear of failure, and that no matter how difficult the goal to accomplish, you always have to start and try, so since correcting that attitude, I have noticed how fruitful my life has been in relation to what success has not been as elusive as in the past.
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This is true! Most people don't realize it until someone points it out, while others know what's wrong with them but still don't want to change. Instead, they are looking for an easier way rather than changing their negative attitude.
I know a man who's in debt because of gambling. He knows that his gambling addiction is the reason why he's in debt. It has been five years, but he continues to gamble, continuously burying himself in debt. When I asked him, he simply said that he tried but can't stop. Instead, he'll just work harder. The problem is that, no matter how hard he works, all of that hard-earned money will just be lost in gambling.
Many of us will try and give up after failing, while others, like you, will keep finding ways until they've achieved success!
This is the question I don't want to ask my future self, which is why, if I want to try something, I make sure to try it.
Hello friend, the fact that time goes by and we do not have favorable results of our proposed objectives, makes us rethink and rectify our attitudes, and it is from there where we probably begin to embrace success. Greetings and thank you for sharing such an important contribution with your comment.