Loneliness seen from an incomprehensible perspective
Is it necessary to fight loneliness?
Actually I ask myself this question by the simple fact of seeing in my daily life as there are people who fight against loneliness, but the reality is that in the life of any of us something ends up being our enemy when it is misunderstood, because what we do not understand we will not know how to use, so I end up thinking that humanity for years has misunderstood the true meaning and usefulness that loneliness can have for us human beings, especially in circumstances where something can go well only if we are alone.
Everything is a balance in human life, no aspect can be exempted from the existing need to have a balance, so it is fair and necessary that we have availability of moments of company and moments of solitude, so I have learned from my life experience that loneliness is not an enemy but an ally, and that in many circumstances we can achieve much more things to be successful under the company of loneliness than under any other circumstances.
Under a healthy and propitious environment of a balance whose interval goes from a propitious company and a healthy solitude, we must expand the sense of relativity to understand that being alone is not as bad as it seems, nature is wise, therefore the same nature will keep us in solitude when it considers propitious that solitude can inspire us to think properly about a matter that deserves it, In the case that we do not know how to decipher that opportunity that nature gives us, then it is because we have not known how to decipher the importance of being alone, and that is when we begin to look at loneliness as that enemy entity before which we must fight to exterminate it.
It is when we kill loneliness when our problems begin, it is normal because we are fighting against the nature of the essence of life, however there are always second and third chances, because once we have identified the origin of the problem, we can return to the rhythm where it is the same essence of life that will act as a regulating entity and will put us in that solitude so necessary to think and act.
When we already know that we have achieved many of our life goals and we begin to feel that spiritual emptiness, it is because the time has come to possess other adverse elements of loneliness.
In conclusion, everything in life comes at the right time and in the right place, nothing is before or after, if not at the right time and place that dictates the very essence of living, the nature and origin of living often speaks to us through signals that fail to be evaluated in the right perspective, so look from a correct angle can allow us to correctly qualify the signals that life gives us and to make the best of the benefits.
I close this reflection answering the question with which I started this post, so it is necessary to know that it is not necessary to fight loneliness, because if loneliness comes into our lives is because we need it to think and act more wisely, and when loneliness leaves us is because it has surely fulfilled its mission.