Family, happiness and money, the necessary trilogy // Familia, felicidad y dinero, la trilogía necesaria

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The money is the solid base to obtain the maximum of emotional happiness and to maintain the roots of the family union. I say this with ownership of the facts and based on personal experience, where my daughter's mother constantly told me to maintain permanent communication with the child, who only needed parental love and affection, even knowing that extra money was required for an outing to the mall, the park or an ice cream parlor.



El dinero constituye la base sólida para obtener el máximo de felicidad emocional y mantener el arraigo de la unión familiar. Lo digo con propiedad de los hechos y basado en la experiencia personal, donde la madre de mi hija decía constantemente que mantuviera la comunicación permanente con la niña, que solamente necesitaba el amor y cariño paternal, aun a sabiendas que se requería dinero extra para una salida de paseo al centro comercial, al parque o una heladería.





Credit // Crédito: TheVirtualDenise

Family and Happiness // Familia y Felicidad


At this point in the 21st century, where modernity and globalization have an uncontrolled rhythm over people's actions, it is inconceivable to think that money is not closely linked to happiness, well-being and family unity within the canons of consumerism and materialism that a child or adolescent requires to keep up with the technological advances implemented in our society.



A estas alturas del Siglo XXI, donde la modernidad y la globalización llevan un ritmo incontrolado sobre el actuar de las personas, es inconcebible pensar que el dinero no está estrechamente ligado con la felicidad, bienestar y la unión familiar dentro de los cánones del consumismo y materialismo que una niña o adolescente requiere para mantenerse al día con los avances tecnológicos implementados en nuestra sociedad.





Source // Fuente: csamhaber

Happiness without money? // ¿Felicidad sin dinero?

And this is how time proved me right when I said that I didn't have money, that it wasn't enough to cover basic expenses and that there were priorities before buying a skateboard, a dress or some toy, even on the eve of the Christmas, where it is customary to give "things" to children. Once I was 15 years old, the "familial" distancing was felt, as it included not only my daughter and my partner, but it extended to a large part of his mother family where they saw me as a "stingy", bad father and irresponsible who avoids financial obligations to his beloved descendant. Maybe they were partly right because just as I had money to support myself I should have gotten extra money to meet the minimum support, but if I came out with 30 dollars it was a miserable alms that I myself felt humiliated by such little misery. Now 18 years old, my daughter has voluntarily decided not to maintain communication with me, and my ex-partner has a new life story and she has a substitute father who has the financial solvency to support her food, studies, trips and clothing that make her happy, according to the testimony of his mother, the same one who told me that the money was not necessary!



Y es de esta manera como el tiempo me dio la razón cuando decía que no tenía dinero, que no alcanzaba para cubrir los gastos básicos y que habían prioridades antes que comprar un monopatín, un vestido o algún juguete, así sea en la víspera de la Navidad, donde se acostumbra a regalarle "cosas" a los niños. Ya cumplidos los 15 años se sintió el distanciamiento "familiar", pues incluía no solamente a mi hija y a mi pareja, sino que se extendió a gran parte de la familia materna donde me veían como un "tacaño", mal padre e irresponsable que elude las obligaciones económicas con su querida descendiente. tal vez en parte tenían razón porque así como tenía dinero para sustentarme debí conseguir dinero extra para cumplir con el sustento mínimo, pero si salía con 30 dólares era una desgraciada limosna que yo mismo me sentía humillado por tan poca miseria. Ahora con 18 años, ya mi hija ha decidido voluntariamente no mantener comunicación conmigo, ya mi expareja tiene una nueva historia de vida y ella tiene un padre sustituto que tiene solvencia económica para sustentar su alimentación, estudios, viajes y vestimenta que la hacen feliz, según el testimonio de su madre, ¡la misma que me decía que no era necesario el dinero!





Credit // Crédito: Zorro4

Girl without heart or without love from the Father? // ¿Niña sin corazón o sin amor del Padre?


I tell my anecdotes with a touch of reflection to make known a life
experience that I do not want to happen to a Father who let time pass
without doing something natural such as spending as much time as
possible with his daughter who perhaps needed only affection and not
an allowance.


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