Wound Healing: You Can't Be Too Careful
Some of my readers know that about a year ago--in May of 2025, to be precise--my husband had complex surgery on his leg. It is not a common operation. When he went for physical therapy, therapists who treated him had never worked with someone who had undergone that specific procedure. What was it? Replacement of the proximal tibia. This procedure is often described as limb-sparing.
Here is a picture of my husband as he takes his first walk outside. It's about a month after the surgery.

In the picture he was wearing a full leg brace that did not allow him to bend his knee at all. The dressing, as you can see, extends down to his foot.
The alternative to this surgery is amputation, which I suppose might have been his only option thirty years ago. We had to find a highly specialized orthopedist to perform the operation, and we wanted to have it done at a hospital nationally ranked in orthopedics. We were fortunate on both counts.
Reading from post-surgical notes, this is what was done: part of his tibia was removed and replaced by a:
modular endoprosthetic prosthesis and proximal tibia replacement with hinged knee replacement, with prophylactic fixation of right tibia with cable and intramedullary implant and repair of patellar tendon
That description covers the orthopedist's (bone doctor's) work. Essentially, a metal rod replaced a large section of my husband's tibia. In order to make this implant become a working part of my husband's leg, skin and muscle had to grow over the metal. This, it turned out, was the part of the healing process that would depend on his natural healing ability, luck, and me.
We decided he would not go into rehab after surgery. He had a very large wound that stretched from his knee all the way down his leg almost to his ankle. That wound was from a skin and muscle graft (his own tissue) that was supposed to connect with the other side of his calf and become a unified working system of tissues. A visiting nurse came twice a week to dress the wound, and to instruct me in dressing the wound.
The nurse and I did not get along well at first. We did not get along because my idea of sterile did not match hers. I had read up on this procedure, on what the chances of success were. The greatest risk to my husband at this point was infection. That made sense.
He had an enormous, open wound. I'm not a scientist, but I do know that infections come from pathogens. A pathogen has to be introduced into the wound. I was hell bent determined that this would not happen while the wound was in my care.
The nurse was less committed. I saw germs, the potential for contamination, everywhere. She was a little more casual.
For example. She was careful about using nitrile examination gloves liberally when treating my husband's wound. That protected her from him, but if the gloves were not sterile, how did that protect him from infection? The gloves, coming out of the box, were not sterile.
Here is a picture of the box top, where it clearly states the gloves are not sterile.

When I treated him I would disinfect my gloves with alcohol. I figured that would cut down on the chance of introducing pathogens into my husband's wound.
I hovered when she treated my husband. Sometimes she would touch an object and then touch my husband's wound. I would pounce.
"No!"
She realized she had to be very careful around me, but she was not happy with my vigilance. She did not want a watchdog. And yet, what was my duty?
If my husband's wound failed to heal, he would be in big trouble. The failure to heal happens a lot. Infection could lead to systemic issues, even sepsis, or it could lead to failure of the implant. It could lead to chronic wound on his leg, which would require long-term treatment at a wound care center.
If his wound didn't heal, what kind of mobility would he have?
I liked the nurse but that appreciation would not make me budge on infection control, because I knew the danger to my husband's health.
I took no chances. I opened packages for her so she wouldn't handle those with the nitrile gloves that would touch my husband's wound.
I realized after a time that her relatively casual approach to infection control was not merely a matter of attitude. There was also a matter of economy.
Sterile exam gloves are available, but these are very expensive. Tossing them off routinely would fast become unaffordable.
There came a time, also, toward the end of his healing process, when the plastic surgeon (plastic surgeons perform the graft operation) prescribed a specific surgical dressing: Aquacel Silver. This dressing is treated with an antimicrobial substance that aids in healing and helps the wound resist infection.
The PA (Physicians Assistant) in the plastic surgeon's office wrote up an order for the nurse (see the picture below). The nurse had to submit a request for supplies from the Home Care office.

The nurse and I came to a bit of a contretemps over use of this material. When she first applied it, she cut the surgical dressing in strips and saved some of the strips for the next visit. I was horrified.
I asked her why she was doing that, instead of using a solid fresh patch for the wound.
"We don't want to waste it," she explained.
I read the package instructions. They were clear. Discard unused portions.

This was a sterile dressing. Once opened, it was not longer sterile. Putting it away would only allow bacteria to grow and possibly to be introduced into the wound. Small chance, but still a risk.
I threw away the unused portion so she couldn't use it when she next came. When I changed his dressing, I discarded the unused portion.
When we went to the plastic surgeon and he dressed the wound, I saw him cut a strip. He instructed me to do the same. Save a piece for later.
"But that's not sterile," I protested.
He gave me an odd look. Patients, and patient's families, do not challenge plastic surgeons.
"Sterile?" he said. "As soon as I open it, it's not sterile."
I didn't argue, but actually that was exactly my point. As soon as it's open, it's not sterile, so throw the unused portion away.
I looked up the price of Aquacel Silver. Today Google AI returned a price of between $25 to $35 for each 4"X5" pad. At the time I found a price slightly lower than that. Still, quite expensive.
Now I understood why the doctor and nurse were economizing. But that's my husband's leg. I wanted to order my own, but needed a prescription. Fortunately, the home care center (which was excellent) sent me a supply after I made a bit of a fuss.
My husband's leg wound healed beautifully. It took months, but it was at least on schedule, if not ahead of schedule.
The nurse was proud of herself. She told us as she was completing her service in our home that this was the first large surgical wound she had ever tended. When I heard that I was really glad I had been so vigilant. She also told my husband that without my (neurotic) care, things might not have gone so well.
Today my husband walks with a cane. It's slow going, but getting better. The good news is, he walks. He goes to card games with his friends. He enjoys life.
Although I'm grateful to the doctors who treated my husband, and to the nurses who helped him, I'm writing this blog to remind all of us that though we need to trust them, we must also be responsible for ourselves. That's hard, because we don't have skill. Sometimes motivation and interest can compensate for the skill deficit.
Wishing everyone peace. This is a line I write today with great earnestness as my country goes to war. It is not a happy time.
(All images are mine, taken with my cell phone camera.)
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I admire how deeply you educated yourself about the procedure and wound care. Advocacy from family can make such a difference in recovery.
He's my husband. I'm not aggressive. I don't like to draw attention to myself. But I do know how to love :) He's my husband and I did what was necessary.
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I was nearly going to shout for the sacking of the nurse but even the doctor seemed less careful than you! I'm glad he was at home in your care - I definitely would have been worried about him in hospital. Better to prevent than try to cure any kind of infection which can just escalate quickly as you know. Glad he's okay.
Thank you! She was really defensive. I was in a spot. I needed a nurse because I didn't know how to apply the dressing properly. I didn't know how to assess the progress of the wound. I needed her eyes and experience. Wouldn't have been any different with another nurse. Seems to be standard practice,using those non-sterile gloves. Chopping the dressing. That's why infections are rampant in hospitals. I'm still thankful for her, because I think she really did care.
:) Definitely
i hope he is better now with the wound... sounds not an easy operation, you did a good job
medical personnel doesn't really care to do thing well, they do at minimum, i had to go to the surgeon 3 times as the nourse fucked up a wound... spend few, in few time, that's their rules usually
Thank you. It was more good luck than anything. His wound closed completely. I could see the satisfaction on the plastic surgeon's face when we went for the last visit. He almost looked surprised. My husband is not a young man and has underlying health issues. So we are quite happy at the outcome. He will probably always need a cane, but that's OK. He walks!
I'm sorry the nurse hurt you. Our care was really rather good. Just, I'm so fussy about hygiene. Few medical facilities meet my strict standards.
3 times!!! That's horrible. I hope you are OK now.
That sounds a good outcome for me too, walking decently is good enough!
Septicemia is not good so it's better being fussy than not
Yep, surgeon sorted it out gladly
It was a really good decision to care for your husband at home. Many studies show better outcomes for post-surgery patients cared for at home as opposed to rehab. But that's hardly surprising. When you're trying to recover the last thing you need is to be surrounded by sick people:)
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I really didn't have a choice. He was miserable in the hospital and frankly, I don't trust people :)) He had wonderful care in the hospital. I understand rehab is a different story. I'm grateful I could do it. I'm so glad it's over :))) Until the next crisis....
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I knew he had had surgery, but I had no idea how extensive, and that you were going through all this. Well done!!! It must have been very trying. You certainly show the value, and necessity, of advocating for a patient.
I know the trials of home care nurses, who can range from highly competent to drug addled idiots. I once had one "draw blood" from my son. I was not in the room, but my son reported that the vials were empty - she had not taken any blood at all. We had just started with a new doctor, having been rejected already by two others for not quite complying with their orders, and here I had to tell the brand new doctor that the phlebotomist he'd sent to my house had erred. Well, the results came back, and were clearly not my son's blood! I had to report that as well! Doc sent another for the test, I verified that the vials were full and clearly marked with my son's info, and lo and behold we got completely different results.
It's very hard to care for someone at home, but it is the very best place to have it done, they are, unfortunately, very unsafe in medical environments outside the home.
I know you went through quite a trial with your son. It's so hard when someone is young. It seems unfair...it is unfair. And to have your child suffer. I'm so sorry. We were relatively lucky. This lady was nice. She was actually an RN, so she did know stuff. And she was gentle with my husband. It's just that medical professionals get casual about infection control. It's hard to be vigilant all the time. She threatened not to come back at one point because I was hounding her. We did reach a kind of peace. It's not easy to delegate care of a loved one to someone else.
I hope neither you nor I ever have to go through such a trial again.
You must have better tactfulness than I do. I alienated a great many medical personel over the years. Not trying to, was trying to be nice and helpful, but when I can saw them screwing up royally, it was hard to find the right words. Like when a doctor stopped predinisone cold turkey, which could have killed him. Or issued pain management placebos because they didn't believe he was really in pain. Or issued a ten times dose of Ativan, then blamed his subsequent seizures on sundowner syndrome. It was very frustrating. At the end, we both knew it was the end, and he did not want to get any of their care, he truly would rather die. I honored that, and he did, at home, calmly and well loved.
I literally could not leave his side whenever someone was administering "care" to him, especially in a medical facility. I slept on the floor next to his bed if I had to, and accompanied him everywhere. They would not listen to him, and I had to get pushy. It was awful. The sickest of us get the worst care imaginable.
I'm very happy to hear it went well for you and your hubby. He's walking again! He's enjoying life! Fabulous.
I cannot tell you how sorry I am. Terrible. I was lucky the surgeon was extraordinarily competent. The hospital/home care agency is trying very hard to increase their standing so they didn't want complaints. Very competitive where I live--saturated with healthcare facilities. Still, it was all a matter of luck and vigilance. I stayed with him every night at the hospital. I had a chair, at least. I went through it with my mother and had to threaten a lawsuit to get her out of the hospital (1985). There was no hospice back then, so we made one at home. Scary, but it's what she wanted.
I hope I just fall over and die when the time comes. Nobody wants to be sick.
Again, I am so very, very sorry about your son. Terrible tragedy.
There were also many blessings. What I learned by loving him has shaped who I am and what I now believe.
They wouldn't let your mother out in 1985?! I thought refusing medical care had always been a recognized right, until 2020. Maybe that went by states.
Dying is so much better at home or hospice. I'm glad you could do it. In hospitals, they torture the patients, and their families, to the very last breath.
I guess we could have tried to drag her out, but she was very sick. She needed support at home. Respiratory therapists, LPN, oxygen machine. Doctor needed to write that up for us. We found a doctor who would do that. We were always grateful to him for that.
wishing him a full and speedy recovery. i have 2 steel rods in my hip after a car accident in 1998.
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I hope these rods give you no trouble.
Thank you for your good wishes.
Thank God for your vigilance. I'm happy to hear all turned out well. I felt the same discomfort when my husband was in the hospital for bile duct surgery. Imagine calling for assistance, and none came until 5 hours later. I wore the call button out. I spent more time at the nurse's station fuming. They were happy to see us check out.
Hope he's getting along much better now. Take care you both.
That sounds painful!
When people are in the hospital they need at least one champion. Nurses are busy. Hospitals are understaffed. I was frankly impressed by the skill of nurses during my husband's stay. The greatest difficulty was with the doctors. Nurses need 'orders' to dispense medication, to do just about anything. We were there on a holiday weekend and doctors were in scarce supply. I hope your husband is well.
My God keep us and our families from ever, ever needing to go to the hospital.
Be well ♥️
I pray we won't have to go again anytime soon. Take care.
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Quite an interesting read. You did extremely well with overseeing the nurse's activities. I've learned an enormous lesson not to query nurses, or even doctors, whenever I have reservations about their actions or procedures based on my limited knowledge. I may not be a medical person, but I read a lot.
Just curious, what led to the initial condition requiring surgery? Was it an accident or something else?
Doctors want their patients to heal. I don't doubt that. However, they treat many, and we are one. They get distracted, they get busy, they make generalizations, they make mistakes. We don't know much, but as you say, we can read and we can question. We have to.
He needed the surgery because there was a very large tumor growing on his tibia. It was his second operation to address this issue. Previously, it seemed the tumor had been removed, from a different area, but it grew back even larger. The decision was that the whole section of the tibia had to come out. As the doctor said, "That tumor is gone".
Good riddance :))
I lost my dad due to a doctor's mistake. An IV injection that should be introduced slowly was rushed; he passed out and passed on in the absence of standby oxygen. I almost lost my wife when she had a cervical tear after giving birth, but the nurses cleaned her without noticing. She almost bled to death and only a quick attention and blood transfusion saved her.
Horrible.
I remember the episode with your wife. You described how dangerous childbearing could be for a woman.
There are many many instances of medical errors. Actually a major cause of death--which is why everyone who is sick needs a champion, someone to look out for them.
I don't want to add to the list of horrors, but one of my brother was killed by an attendant.
My brother was disabled. His care instructions were clear: nothing by mouth, because he couldn't chew or swallow. An attendant took his temperature with an oral thermometer. My brother choked to death.
Horror stories. We can never be too careful.
You did very well to supervise and be present during your husband's healing process. Some members of the medical staff work very well, but others do everything reluctantly. Less than a year ago, my father developed a strange abscess just below his jaw. It grew a lot, and some doctors thought it might be cancer. For several days, we consulted different doctors. In the end, while we were trying to find the cause of this abscess, it burst, immediately causing an infection with Staphylococcus aureus, a bacterium that practically devours flesh, so the wound grew larger every day.
My father underwent minor surgery while being administered several antibiotics to prevent the infection from spreading and reaching his brain. When he came out of surgery, I took him home and called a nurse friend to take care of the healing process while I stayed with him. My friend did an incredible job. Every day there was significant progress, and with each bandage change, she explained everything she was doing. You have to be very meticulous to avoid aggravating the infection. She prepared a solution containing low doses of chlorine, I think it's called Dakin's solution or something like that, and used it to disinfect the entire wound after cleaning it, then applied the bandage. This process was done twice a day, my father healed completely in a month and did not need the reconstructive surgery that had been initially planned.
I thanked God profusely for reminding me of her and for agreeing to carry out the entire healing process for my father. She works treating serious or complex wounds at one of the hospitals in my city.
On the other hand, I was surprised by everything you said about the process your husband went through. I can imagine how painful the injury and everything else must be for him. I hope he recovers soon and regains more mobility. Best wishes, I hope you have a good week, @agmoore.
That is an amazing story about your father! Diligence, meticulous care--that's what it takes to fight off infection. I am so very happy your friend is a nurse with such skill. I am familiar with Staphylococcus aureus. Very scary. Not only disfiguring, but so fast acting could be fatal.
I think the doctor and the nurse in my husband's case were following standard practice. I don't think standard practice is good enough. Can't let the pathogens slip through, not with such a wound and with a person whose health is already compromised.
I'm glad to see you got your blog up!! I don't know what the issue with the pictures was, but I saw a lot of bloggers had a problem.
My husband will always need a cane to walk, but that's OK. As we get older we have to let go of stuff. That's aging. He is handling this loss (and other losses) gracefully. I'm proud of him.
Stay well. Cherish your father--as I know you do. Life is precious.
Those were days of great distress, not knowing what was wrong with my father. We never discovered the cause of his problem, despite all the tests he underwent, including dental examinations. All the tests came back normal, except for the blood tests, which showed an infection, but we didn't know what had caused it. He contracted Staphylococcus aureus when his strange and enormous abscess burst, exposing a large amount of internal tissue and opening the door to Staphylococcus, so it was a tough fight against several pathogens.
As for Hive, I still have the problem. I was able to post on Peakd by changing the image format, but on Hive.blog I can't see or upload any images. From what I've read on Discord, it seems that the server hosting Hive's images is having problems.
Yes, I appreciate my father very much. He was the one who introduced me to the world of plants, animals, and insects by taking me and my siblings to work on his farm years ago. He just turned 75, always walking or inventing things in his little workshop. He is very restless, which has led to multiple minor accidents.
Your father is younger than I am :) It's wonderful that he is restless. We don't want to be relegated to the role of observer as we age. Live life as fully as we can, until the last moment.
I am very glad you have him and treasure him.
Sounds like complex surgery but so good to hear your man mobile and active today!
Good on you for sticking to your guns and making sure your hubby's wound was getting the best care. Hard work when you have to supervise!
I just read your blog. We are in the soup when we age, aren't we? It's up to family to help out, and then us to us to try to handle these challenges with grace.
I consider you an example. I admire you. So much happens to you and help you handle it all with grace.
We for sure are in the soup as we age, very hot soup at times!
My life for sure did a turnaround just after turning 70 when my hubby left for his forever home!
We can only do our best and take each day as it comes. I so appreciate your kind words @agmoore!